Make This Easy In-Wash Homemade Fabric Softener

Embrace the Cuddle with Homemade Fabric Softener

Almost a decade ago I eliminated liquid fabric softener and began cutting my dryer sheets in half. I wanted to reduce my family’s exposure to synthetic fragrance, while still keeping our laundry soft and clean-smelling. Then, over 5 years ago I made the switch from dryer sheets to wool dryer balls and in-wash homemade fabric softener. And I haven’t looked back!

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Why Homemade?

Commercial fabric softeners are loaded with chemicals that can irritate skin and wreak havoc on the environment. Homemade fabric softeners are simple to make with just a few ingredients.

You will not believe how easy it is to make an in-wash fabric softener. In fact, if you like, you could simply add distilled white vinegar to your machine’s fabric softener dispenser. Or, you can bump it up a notch with germ-fighting essential oils! You’ll see how below.

Benefits of Homemade Fabric Softener

• Softer, Smoother Threads: Detergent build-up can lead to stiffer fibers. Natural softeners, like vinegar, help remove detergent residue so your clothes are softer.

• Film Free: Commercial fabric softeners contain conditioning agents that can leave a film on your clothes. Our homemade fabric softener keeps your laundry film free.

• Goodbye, Itch! Most commercial softeners contain harsh chemicals that can irritate sensitive skin (like mine). By going natural, you’ll be kind to your skin and avoid that annoying itch.

• Biodegradable: Natural softeners break down easily, unlike their synthetic counterparts which can linger in the environment.

• Bye-Bye Bottles: When you make your own in-wash fabric softener you won’t have to deal with recycling the commercial fabric softener bottle (and the rinsing out that goes along with it!). With this homemade fabric softener you’ll reuse the same bottle each time you make a new batch!

• Budget Friendly: Homemade fabric softener is surprisingly affordable. A few simple inexpensive ingredients can create gallons of natural goodness, saving you money immediately.

⭐️Fab Fabric Softener Recipe

• 16oz PET Plastic pump bottle
• 5g (1 teaspoon) Polysorbate-20
• 5g (120-125 drops) Essential Oils—see blends below
• 415g (1 3/4 cups) distilled White Vinegar

To Make: Combine Polysorbate-20 and Essential Oils in the pump bottle. Swirl for 20-30 seconds to combine and let sit for 5 minutes. Swirl again. Then add distilled White Vinegar. Cap, shake well, and label. [Also, I always recommend wearing gloves when blending.]

However, if you wish, a glass pump bottle can certainly be used instead of PET plastic.

Why Grams? I use a scale to make all of my products. Measuring by weight allows me to consistently make a product the same way. This is the jeweler’s scale I use for projects like this.

Fabric Softener Essential Oil Blends

While vinegar can be used alone as a fabric softener, essential oils provide germ-fighting action, too. Here are some of the blends I use regularly—my favorite is the Fabulous Fabric blend.

⭐️Fabulous Fabric Blend

• 2.5g (53-58 drops) Lavandin essential oil (Lavandula x intermedia)
• 1.25g (28-31 drops) Lemon essential oil (Citrus x limon)
• 1.25g (28-31 drops) Tea Tree essential oil (Melaleuca alternifolia)

⭐️Love Lavender

• 5g (123-126 drops) Lavender essential oil (Lavandula angustifolia)

⭐️Fresh Forest Blend

• 3g (73-75 drops) Eucalyptus globulus essential oil
• 1g (24-25 drops) Lemon essential oil (Citrus x limon)
• 1g (24-25 drops) Peppermint essential oil (Mentha x piperita)

⭐️Sporty Citrus Blend

• 2.5g (60-63 drops) Grapefruit essential oil (Citrus x paradisi)
• 1.25g (28-31 drops) Lemongrass essential oil (Cymbopogon citratus/C. flexuosus)
• 1.25g (28-31 drops) Rosemary camphor essential oil (Rosmarinus officinalis/Salvia rosmarinus ct camphor)

What’s Polysorbate-20 & Why’s it in My Fabric Softener?

The surfactant/solubilizer is an important component in this recipe. With out it, your washing machine and laundry could be damaged by exposure to undiluted essential oils. If you don’t wish to use polysorbate-20, simply omit the essential oils and use distilled white vinegar alone.

Why Vinegar?

This fabric softener really is all about the vinegar! In addition to the natural softening that vinegar provides fabrics, you can also use it as a pre-treatment!

• For grease stains, place a small towel under the fabric, then pre-treat the area with vinegar and a drop of dish soap. Scrub gently with a toothbrush to work the mixture into the stain. Let it sit for 20-30 minutes before laundering. Spot check before tossing in the dryer.
• For sweat stains, mix equal parts water and vinegar and apply to the stain. Let it sit for 30 minutes before laundering. It will also neutralize the sweaty odor! (I keep a spray bottle of 50/50 in my laundry room.)

By making simple changes, like replacing commercial fabric softener with homemade and replacing scent beads and dryer sheets with wool dryer balls and essential oils, you can keep your clothes soft and fresh without compromising your health or the planet.

Mom’s Shopping List

Get ready to make your own laundry fabric softener! Here’s where I get the ingredients to make mine:

• 16oz Pump Bottle:
  • PET Slim & Tall (on Amazon)
  • PET Wide Base (on Amazon)
  • Glass Wide Base (on Amazon).

• Distilled White Vinegar – local grocer

• Polysorbate-20:
  • Velona natural oils, USP (on Amazon).

Fabulous Fabric Blend

• Lavandin essential oil (Lavandula x intermedia):
  • Plant Therapy (Direct and Amazon).💛

• Lemon essential oil (Citrus x limon):
  • Plant Therapy, organic (Direct and Amazon)💛
  • Aromatics International, organic
  • Edens Garden, sustainable (on Amazon).

• Tea Tree essential oil (Melaleuca alternifolia):
  • Aromatics International, organic
  • Plant Therapy, organic (Direct and Amazon)
  • TIP: Plant Therapy’s Tea Tree Hydrosol is excellent for skin care (Direct and Amazon).

Love Lavender

• Lavender essential oil (Lavandula angustifolia):
  • Plant Therapy, organic (Direct and Amazon)
  • Aromatics International, organic artisan (grown and distilled in Montana)
  • TIP: Plant Therapy’s Lavender Hydrosol (Direct and Amazon) is lovely for skin care and general aromatherapy.

Fresh Forest Blend

• Eucalyptus globulus essential oil:
  • Aromatics International, organic
  • Plant Therapy, organic (Direct and Amazon).

• Lemon essential oil (Citrus x limon):
  • Plant Therapy, organic (Direct and Amazon)💛
  • Aromatics International, organic
  • Edens Garden, sustainable (on Amazon).

• Peppermint essential oil (Mentha x piperita):
  • Plant Therapy, organic (Direct and Amazon)
  • Aromatics International, organic.

Sporty Citrus Blend

• Pink/Rose Grapefruit essential oil (Citrus x paradisi):
  • Plant Therapy, organic, Pink (Direct and Amazon)
  • Aromatics International, organic, Rose.

• Lemongrass essential oil (Cymbopogon citratus / C. flexuosus):
  • Plant Therapy, organic (Direct and Amazon)
  • Aromatics International, sustainably wildcrafted
  • Also Aromatics International’s skin-gentle, organic Lemongrass ct rhodinol.

• Rosemary essential oil (Rosmarinus officinalis / Salvia rosmarinus):
  • Aromatics International, organic, Rosemary camphor and Rosemary verbenone
  • Plant Therapy, organic, Rosemary 1,8-cineole (Direct and Amazon)
  • Edens Garden, sustainable, “Spanish” Rosemary camphor (on Amazon).

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All recipes provided are for personal use and are not designed for re-sale or large-scale manufacturing.
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